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DispatchFatherhoodOctober 26, 20252 min read

DISPATCH 20: The Fire or the Shortcut

DISPATCH 20: The Fire or the Shortcut

We live in a world obsessed with shortcuts.

Everyone wants comfort without effort.

Ease without understanding.

But nature doesn’t work that way.

Aldous Huxley warned us.

“Man has an almost infinite appetite for distractions.”

He saw how people trade truth for convenience.

That is how we lose our wild places.

Not in one big moment but through a thousand small choices for ease.

Over the weekend, I took my daughter and her best friend hunting.

It was her friend’s first time in the woods.

She was full of questions.

Wide-eyed. Curious. Restless.

Keeping two seven-year-olds quiet in a shooting house is no easy task.

But watching them engage, watching wonder take root, that was everything.

They will remember the frost on the fields.

The smell of the coffee.

The laughter at the diner after.

That stuff sticks.

Because hunting is not about pulling the trigger.

It’s about learning patience.

It’s about paying attention.

It is about knowing your place in the life cycle, not above it.

When we teach our kids to hunt, we are teaching them to resist the shortcut.

To choose the fire instead.

To understand that effort, discipline, and stillness are not punishments. They are privileges.

If we don’t pass that on, who will?

If they never learn what it feels like to earn something real,

how will they ever protect it?

Take them into the woods.

Let them freeze.

Let them question.

Let them see what the world looks like without

Wi-Fi and comfort.

That is how we keep the fire alive.


FIELD

When you take kids hunting, the snacks matter more than you think.

Choose foods that are quiet, clean, and easy to manage.

Skip the crinkly chip bags and hard candy wrappers.

Pack sliced fruit, jerky, trail mix, or a small thermos of hot chocolate.

The quieter they can eat, the longer they will stay still and enjoy the sit.


MINDSET

Plan your week like a hunt.

Mark your high-value targets (top 3 priorities).

Set your stand times (when you’ll focus deeply).

Then stick to it. No distractions. No scrolling. Just deliberate action.


To seek truth, not comfort.

— Aldous Huxley


Are you showing your kids how to chase ease, or how to earn what matters?


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Austin Nicholas

Father, outdoorsman, and guide to raising resilient kids through wilderness and adventure.

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